I'm Kim, currently out in the Sandy Springs area. I am 34 years old. 5'9" petite and in good shape. I am naturally blonde, usually have short hair during the winter, it's a pain to keep up with it if it gets too long. Too much dry weather, and static and my hair stands on end, and that's not always a pretty picture. I grew up in Oklahoma and I guess I'm a country girl at heart, but I do have my "wild" side, which we'll get into later. I am married, and have been for 12 years. We are very secure and we enjoy our time together, as well as our free time apart. I am employed and do quite well for myself. I'm not like most people online. When I'm on, I have every intention of meeting if there is mutual interest. I do have several photo's of myself, but prefer to send only if it leads to meeting. I'm not too fond of sending my photo's just because you need help jerking off. With having life, social, and work obligations, I tend to only play every other Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Given how heavy I play it's good to give myself a break to recover. Also, in keeping that schedule I've been able to be more consistent. I take pride in having a good time and enjoying adult fun. I'm not the type to have a "little black book" published online because of foolishness or lack of discretion.
Well as you can see in the photo's above, to be blunt, it's a hole in a wall/door/sheet/partition. The premise is that the man enters, watches xxx, gets aroused, and being tired of jerking off solo, employs the help of a willing lady who happens to be on the other side. It's sex at its simplest form. It's very "impersonal" and it can be quite fun. I became experienced with it while part of a swingers group with hubby. Glory holes are usually found in adult theaters and adult "bookstores". The usual situation was that the men would pick numbers from a hat and go into a corresponding "booth" while the ladies were out perusing the store, then the ladies would draw a number and go to the "booth" to the right. By that time the man would be aroused after viewing the xxx and would be in "need" of a helping hand, mouth, throat pussy and/or ass. The ladies would in turn offer that. It becomes a turn on because you "know" who it is, but you don't quite "know" who it is. The anticipation of it all is part of the turn on. I prefer having my own vs. the public ones as while I do enjoy the nature of play, I never felt entirely comfortable with not knowing much about the person I was servicing. More so, I didn't like the random nature of enjoying myself and not knowing if I'd ever run across, or be able to contact that person again. There's something to be said about the level of comfort and trust that comes from being able to chat a little first, exchange photos, and then have fun. There's also the social responsibility factor in that I'm not here to be a threat to health, home, or career, and expect the same in return. If there was ever an issue, the line of communication are open between us so we can re-schedule, or make alternate plans should something come up to prevent you from stopping over.
Simple, it's fun, in my experience it seems as if it's mutual, as the man will usually be halfway hard in anticipation by the time he arrives at the glory hole. My husband does know about it (he helped make it) and he enjoys hearing of my stories. He's never around when it happens so there's no threat of being "walked in" on. Keep in mind that this is a hobby to me, so there are times I'm not available due to work, or other personal/social life obligations. I like it because to be honest it makes me feel like a slut, and I'm comfortable with that as it's what I enjoy. It's no different then being into a leather fetish, or a foot fetish, or a chocolate fetish. I have no shame in admitting I like getting men off. And though I do like enjoy being a slut at my glory hole, in some ways there's a certain "security" in knowing for the most part that discretion is held at its highest. The very nature of it makes it discreet. Where else could you have a female suck you and even fuck her, and honestly be able to say (if confronted) "I've never met this woman before. But it really is one of those "give it a try" things first. I will honestly admit that judging on the number of men that have returned for more, it is a very pleasurable experience for both parties. I have varying tastes in men. Most fall in the single or married, late twenties to mid fifties range. The gloryhole is a great "equalizer" to me because it keeps things purely physical, carnal, and basic. I don't have to be concerned about your personality, or if I "like" you. I don't have to worry about being turned off because of something outside of your control. You are a man, you have a cock, and I want it. As it relates to maintaining discretion and safety: I feel we each (and me especially) have a social and moral obligation to make sure I'm not threatening health, home, or career of myself or others. I get checked twice a month, not out of fear, but so I can say with certainty that I'm clean and clear. At the end of the day, it's about having adult fun, in private, and having you leave with no regrets or feelings of remorse or guilt. While I could partake of this same activity in the various swing clubs in the areas that I travel, I find interacting here, and having the option and availability for subsequent meetings, pushes things over the edge as it relates to gaining a measure and level of comfort to go through with meeting. I'm every bit as nervous now as when I first started, but that's tempered with the experience of knowing that it really is something enjoyable, and by using intuition, and common sense, I've been able to service some really great guys and look forward to continuing.
Well, it *is* good, and it *is* true. There's no money involved, I do it because I enjoy sex with men (as any female should). I have discussed this with hubby and there are a few "rules" I ask that you respect. Please keep in mind that I'm already at the glory hole when you arrive. So please be secure with letting yourself in and being on your best behavior. My husband knows I enjoy giving oral (he thinks I'm one of the best and I enjoy proving it). I also enjoy (heavily enjoy) anal sex with a man. While we have discussed at length, he does request that I keep the kitty all for him. Considering we're married and he already gives me a long leash, that's not too much to ask for in my book so please respect that as well. Otherwise feel free to ask what is and what isn't off limits. I enjoy the glory hole because it's pure sex. No need to worry about taking me out, we don't even need to say many words, we both know what you're there for. Hubby understands that as well, but to keep it as impersonal as possible, he does prefer that things stay one sided (me sucking, me getting fucked) too much touchy feely and it almost makes me uncomfortable. Just understand things from my angle. I'm giving directions to where I am, with the door already unlocked. I'm all alone, so yes, I do get a little nervous, and prefer as well that the touching is kept to a minimum. I had a bad experience where a gentleman (though you really can't call him that) got too aggressive and touched me in ways that did in fact make me feel uncomfortable, and no one should be made to feel that way, especially in their own place of play. All you really do is come over, enjoy the xxx playing, unzip and let a gal that knows what she likes take care of the rest. I've been at it since 2004 and it's something I truly enjoy. To help you understand that I am very real, here are a few comments I've received from men that have visited over the course of the years:
Just a refresher. Keep your hands to yourself, unless you're grabbing my hips because I'm bent over for you. The kitty is off limits but in all my experiences that isn't a problem at all. I'm ma good Catholic woman so no birth control. I'd rather not have an "oopsie" 9 months later that I didn't plan to have. If all you want is oral, please expect me to swallow. I love to and I will. I *really* love anal sex. The glory hole experience is "arranged anonymous" if you will. So a photo of you isn't a must, but it never hurts to send one. I do prefer married men 25-60. Married preferred as they have other obligations, I'm not looking to go out on dates, just need someone that needs an equal amount of discretion, someone that can appreciate what I'm offering. Single is fine if you can maintain discretion and not get *too* attached. "Word of mouth" and "Networking" are great tools as I do like being shared and passed around.. If you enjoy yourself, and think you might have a friend, relative, coworker or drinking buddy who would enjoy it, please feel free to include them in subsequent visits. I am STD free, and get checked by a married regular twice a month, and appreciate the assumption that you are as well. As an adult I feel that there's a moral obligation to make sure that I'm not doing anything to cause harm to health, home, or career for both of us. That being said with oral and anal, nothing turns me on more than being able to suck it hard and wet and slide it inside me. I do sometimes enjoy using a vibrator while receiving anal so don't be surprised if you here a "buzz" coming from the other side. Aside from that I'm an open book. Feel free to ask whatever questions needed to make yourself comfortable.
Almost forgot. Email is the best way to contact me. firstname.lastname@example.org. I do have YAHOO as well. On YAHOO (which I prefer for CHAT) my ID is "atlglryhleslut". Feel free to add me to your friends/buddy list if you'd like. I'm often times "invisible" but send a message anyway. If i'm online I'll respond, if not I'll respond as soon as I can. For those that are unable to view profiles. I'll include a photo of me, as well as a photo of my glory hole so you understand who I am and what I'm offering. The glory hole *is* Very discreet and VERY private. The glory hole is a sheet that hangs from the doorframe. Makes it easy to put it up, take it down, clean it etc. The thumbnail is small. But I have a married friend that is close to 9" and he fits with plenty of room to spare. So trust that you will too. Since the glory hole is "flexible" you're able to hold onto my hips (and hips only please) if need be (which if you love anal, you will be). I'm on Adultfriendfinder as "atlglryhlegal" as well, so feel free to contact me there.
** To help facilitate the ability to take meet and keep discreet contact, I have my own yahoo group - yahoo is free to join, and makes it easy to stay discreet, even more so in that you'll have to be "approved" to join the group - so this isn't something for the riff-raff or wafflers. http://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/atlglryhlegal/info Keep in mind I *am* a greedy slut so there's no such thing as coming over "too often" - though I may make administrative decisions to make sure everyone that wants to drop a load in me can do so.** The yahoo group is extremely private. You'll be able to see messages I send (related to my availability). I have things setup that way so you can be sure that if you join, the only two people that will know you are a member are you, and me. I hold discretion as one of the most important things that can be shared between two consenting adults and cherish it.